Our Dildos & Dongs Guide


First things first, what is the difference between a dildo and a dong? For the most part, nothing... but for those who want to get specific, traditionally Dongs are made of non-realistic materials (often time's glass and metal) and are not phallic in nature. On the other hand Dildos are penis-shaped and often look and feels exactly like the real thing. But who's kidding who? We don't care what you call them; there is something for everyone in this category!

Dildos and dongs are meant for penetration vaginally or anally and come in a variety of sizes, materials, vibrations and functions. A vibrating dildo versus a non-vibrating is up to the user and what they prefer. Often times, the vibrating portion of a dildo (normally a bullet vibe), can be removed. Vibrations just add a little more sensation in all the right places. Please browse through Our Materials Guide to get a better understanding of the realistic materials offered and what one will suit your needs the best. For this guide, we will concentrate on different types of Dildos & Dongs and the benefits of each.



Dildos with Balls:

Just what it sounds like! These are dildos (extremely realistic or a little more subtle in nature) that have ball sacks attached. Often these dildos can be recommended for anal play due to the balls being a natural "stopper" for safe penetration. The balls also can be used to stand the dildo upright, offering more options in your positioning and play. Add a little vibration and the balls add a little extra tingle in all the right spots!

Start with: Adam's 8" Pleasureskin Cock - Cream

Double Dongs:

Double Dongs are two "headed" toys that can take a couple different forms and offer double penetration (vaginally and anally at the same time) or for use with two people (vagina to vagina, vagina to anal, anal to anal). Double Dongs can be straight up and down with a head at each end; often times bendable enough to reach both partners and spots comfortably or they can resemble an actual penis with a second penis attachment for solo vaginal/anal play. Vibrating or non-vibrating, realistic or futuristic, double dongs provide double the pleasure!

Start with: Vac-U-Lock Double Penetrator

Harness Compatible Dildos & Dongs and Harness & Dong Sets:

These are any dongs that can fit into a harness for partner play. These dongs have come a long way in recent years. They have always made dongs for women to wear for woman on woman, or a woman to use anally on her man. Now, there are hollow dongs (see Men's Strap-Ons) that fit into a harness and can be worn by a man! Harness Compatible Dildos & Dongs are normally with a suction cup base and can be very realistic in nature or less intimidating and more fun to look at. They come in a variety of colors, materials and styles, and often come as a set with the harness. Buying as a set, takes the guessing out of what harness will a dong will fit into and what o-rings to use. Pick one that you can use solo with the added bonus of using with a harness and partner!

Start with: Vac-U-Lock Ultra Harness Set - Vibrating 6"

What are the benefits of a Suction Cup Base?:

Think about where and how you want to use your dildo or dong. A suction cup base is not important if you are going to lie in bed and play with it, however if you like to play in the shower, tub, or even just a hard surface a suction cup base can be very useful! Stick that bad boy anywhere you have ever dreamt about getting it on AND try different angles and positions without fear of letting go (hands free!) A shower wall or countertop becomes your little playground. Suction Cup Bases are also used when attaching a dildo or dong to most harnesses. They come in handy for solo play or let your partner get in on the action!

Start with: Crystal Jellies Ballsy Cock w/ Suction Cup - 6" Purple

Realistic or Traditional?:

Most dildos and dongs come in a realistic look and feel. They can be made of realistic skin-like material or something else, but always has the penis shape to them. Dildos and Dongs can also be considered "traditional" in that they are not phallic in nature and are often made of alternative materials such as glass or even metal. A traditional dildo or dong might often make people wonder "what do I do with that?" Same as you would do with a penis! Vaginally or anally, vibrating or non-vibrating all dildos and dongs offer a variety of possibilities!

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